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Old 08-08-2019, 07:40 AM
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This thread was originally intended to help anyone here who may be having trouble with relationships and love. The books I recommended were about better communication, understanding your partner, and parenting. The thread probably would have been okay had I named it something better and if I had done a better job with my presentation.

Three mistakes I made:

1. I tried to be creative and use the Blue Pill / Red Pill analogy from the Matrix.

2. I posted a couple of videos by a pickup artist to help explain some of what I was talking about since there's a 10,000 character limit. The 20+ minute videos were okay, but during the last few minutes of the videos the pick up artist plugged his program you can buy to learn how to get laid, and I see how that could give people the wrong idea.

3. I used my relationship problems in my example and that probably made it sound like I was complaining about not getting laid. That shifted the focus away from what I had originally intended this thread to be for — helping the readers have better and more successful relationships.

I highly respect women, and all I've ever wanted is to find one special girl, get married, and have a family. I haven't been able to make that happen. I never knew what I was doing wrong and I was in denial about needing help, but I found some books that explained in detail everything I've been doing wrong. While reading these books I realized these mistakes were common behaviors among men; so I thought I would share it here to help someone else have the same epiphany I had.

I may try to post this topic again in another thread, but I've got to figure out how to present it in a way that can't be misunderstood.

The one book I recommended did cover the history of "Game" and it does talk about the disgusting and manipulative tactics of pick up artists, but that's not what the books were promoting. These were not books about "7 steps to getting laid" or something dumb like that. I'm 35 not 18. The books were simply about improving yourself, having better communication, understanding your partner, and being a better parent.

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The thing is, you cannot be the perfect man. It isn't the same definition for everyone anyway.

Anyway, there is something other than looking for women and love.
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I remember when I discovered "game" when I was 16 and then quickly realized it's a completely destructive mindset to have and use.

This whole thread is ****ed in my opinion and you should just stay on /pol/ and Heartiste with this garbage.

But let me extend an olive branch:

Perhaps the reason "women don't want you" is because you see them as women who don't want you rather than individuals with their own past and own feelings.

Love isn't about games, and strategy, and manipulation.

Also, no one is obligated to want you or even like you. Women don't owe you anything.

I assure you that I've delved into this world before and it will not work and it will make you bitter and everyone will be able to see what you're trying to do.
Obviously if you read the comments there was a big misunderstanding as to what this thread was about, and it was my fault. I didn't think about how some elements of my presentation might come off the wrong way. I'll do better next time.
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Old 08-09-2019, 12:26 AM
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Old 08-09-2019, 01:43 AM
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The thing is, you cannot be the perfect man. It isn't the same definition for everyone anyway.

Anyway, there is something other than looking for women and love.
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I remember when I discovered "game" when I was 16 and then quickly realized it's a completely destructive mindset to have and use.

This whole thread is ****ed in my opinion and you should just stay on /pol/ and Heartiste with this garbage.

But let me extend an olive branch:

Perhaps the reason "women don't want you" is because you see them as women who don't want you rather than individuals with their own past and own feelings.

Love isn't about games, and strategy, and manipulation.

Also, no one is obligated to want you or even like you. Women don't owe you anything.

I assure you that I've delved into this world before and it will not work and it will make you bitter and everyone will be able to see what you're trying to do.
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