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Old 10-25-2010, 07:39 AM
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I do it everyday, can anyone relate?
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Old 10-25-2010, 07:44 AM
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Old 10-25-2010, 07:47 AM
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Simple but deep statement.

I have, not often though. To be honest I kinda think when you cry inside but try to hide it with a smile, it actally feels worse than being sad with no attempt to hide it (or physical cry). To hide sadness with happiness takes too much energy (in my opinion) and I just don't have it in me.
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:03 AM
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Definitely.

I hate it when you really can't explain what you feel to someone, so you just hide it.
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:18 AM
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I do this perhaps way more than is healthy for me. Not necessarily a smile, but I always do my best to keep face and display that nothing is wrong even to the extent of faking happiness in front of others if I feel that they would be troubled to see me otherwise.

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Old 10-25-2010, 08:23 AM
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I do this perhaps way more than is healthy for me. Not necessarily a smile, but I always do my best to keep face and display that nothing is wrong even to the extent of faking happiness in front of others if I feel that they would be troubled to see me otherwise.
Exactly, I do that nearly everyday, to everyone. It's extremely draining, It'd be nice if i didn't have to but I do...

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Old 10-25-2010, 08:26 AM
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I do it all the time with people IRL... because my motivation, how I get 'happiness' is different. Because sadly, many people I know think that there's something wrong with showing too much of yourself.
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:27 AM
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Happens all the time w/me.
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:35 AM
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I could never hide sadness with a smile. Kinda like Layzie said, it just takes to much out of you

I'd just do what I normally do...show no outward emotion and let it pile up on the inside
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Old 10-25-2010, 08:39 AM
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Very often thing that.
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Old 10-25-2010, 09:29 AM
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I could never hide sadness with a smile. Kinda like Layzie said, it just takes to much out of you

I'd just do what I normally do...show no outward emotion and let it pile up on the inside

Yeah i do basically that, i just exchange no outward emotion for smiles so everyone thinks i'm great, I've found that the more i smile the more happy my brothers are and its basically i chain reaction, I do my best to keep everyone around me happy, Maybe its stupid but at least there happy
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Old 10-25-2010, 09:30 AM
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No, I hate crying. I don't usually let people see me cry. I'll hold it in until I'm alone or something and then do whatever.
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Old 10-25-2010, 09:31 AM
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Wait, I read that wrong, I guess that is the same.
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Old 10-25-2010, 01:36 PM
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Sometimes. In England it is widely regarded as bad to show too much emotion and crying is somewhat 'frowned' (can't think of a better word) upon. I smile while others are around and then when I'm alone I can cry and show how I really feel

I don't really have anybody that I can show emotion in front of without feeling as though I'm being judged. It is why I loved AF and ToS so much.
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Old 10-25-2010, 05:18 PM
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Yes its happened to me. I do it very often with my roommates and my parents. I figure they wouldn't understand so i do not convey that anything is wrong. I agree though it is hard on you holding things back. Makes ne wish I knew everyone here irl
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