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Old 04-01-2010, 12:57 PM
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TOS is no longer a home for me. I've been hurt here in a way I didn't think was possible.

Many of you are good friends, and I will miss you. But I cannot stay here anymore. So its time to say goodbye.
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Old 04-01-2010, 01:02 PM
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Damn what?
I miss your sharp debates and witty banter already..
Whatever you decide is up to you though Tsmukan..
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Old 04-01-2010, 01:32 PM
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Goodbye. Sorry this happened... You shouldn't let some people get you down, so many people never think about what they say.
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Old 04-01-2010, 01:39 PM
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In this case, its the kind of thing that stays. When I was hurt, no one stood up for me. Thats what also hurts.
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Old 04-01-2010, 01:56 PM
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I didn't even see the thread until after replying...
I understand why you're hurt about this, and it's your choice really, but I know that sometimes people say things they really didn't mean, and they had no idea of your situation. Remember when someone gets you down, they know nothing, particularly if they weren't intentionally doing it.

Even if I can't convince you not to go (not that that's my intention here), I'd like to say that one comment, made in the heat of the moment, does not mean everyone here has a problem with that, or doesn't understand.
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Old 04-01-2010, 01:57 PM
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Bye Shatnerpossum. I have only been on the forums for a couple of weeks, but I have come to appreciate your posts. Take care. May Eywa be with you.
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Old 04-01-2010, 02:00 PM
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If I'm not wrong, I think I remember that post which made you upset.. just didn't expect things to turn out that way..

Anyways, all the best in your future pursuits.
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Old 04-01-2010, 02:44 PM
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In this case, its the kind of thing that stays. When I was hurt, no one stood up for me. Thats what also hurts.
I don't say this lightly: when I first saw your post, I thought it was tied in to today being April 1st. I poked around a bit and saw the thread that (I believe) led to your decision. I apologize that it took me a few days, but I did respond to the thread, and within my post, you'll hopefully see that I did try to stand up for you:

http://www.tree-of-souls.com/showthr...3013#post13013

I don't know that anything any of us could say or do would be enough to convince you to stay, and I never interacted with you personally, but I know you are one of the pillars of our community...and for our family to lose you would be a mind-numbing blow. (I was also looking forward to meeting you on the camping trip in late July.) Please, please reconsider...don't go.

Whichever way you decide, ma tsmukan (and I'm welling up typing this)--oel ngati kameie...both for what led us to ToS in the first place (Avatar) and for what you revealed about yourself in the aforementioned thread.

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Old 04-01-2010, 03:30 PM
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He has already made his decision, he's no longer with us.

Hmf, see what happens for a misunderstanding. Shatner tried to help but fkeua saw it as an attack. And so the flame war began.

I'm sorry for what has happened, specially for Shatner who is actually ill. If I could I would have done everything I could to avoid this. Anyway it happened.

If Shatner can read this, please come back.
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Old 04-01-2010, 03:31 PM
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After reading the thread in question, Shatner, It doesn't look like Fkeua was trying to insult you. He probably wasn't aware of your problem. Please reconsider. I know this is a very touchy subject but please try to work things out instead of just throwing in the towel. You give many good posts on here. I hope you are able to get some help soon. I know it is not fun to have an illness. I have a very dear friend of mine who also suffers from mental illness. I know what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you but I do hope that you reconsider.
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Old 04-01-2010, 04:24 PM
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Ma tsmukan I beg you to reconsider, I don't know what happened but please give it another chance. I love to see you around the forum. Whatever you decide I'll always be here to talk to you, and I hope you're still going to the Southern California Avatar Retreat?

I'll miss you, but please reconsider.

Edit: Losing you is like losing a valuble member of a family. Each person here has a special place in my heart, no matter how many new people join, they will never fill the void in my heart where you once were (if you have completely made up your mind, please I pray you don't). Those new people will have a new place in my heart, but you have one special one. I don't look around at post authors and think they're "just another person" no I think of each one of you as a person who has a different life, someone experiencing life in a way different than mine, with their own hopes, dreams, and maybe some problems in life (I believe we all have at least one problem in life). Thats what you are in my heart, a person whom I have had a conversation with, someone whom I was (and hopefully still am) going to meet in the Avatar Retreat. Things like this, people leaving, sometimes I cry because the sadness can be overwhealming.

Losing a family member is not easy, I hope we won't lose you.

And remember you have my cell phone number, if you need anything or just need to talk, get something off your chest, give me a call
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Old 04-01-2010, 08:35 PM
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After reading the thread in question, Shatner, It doesn't look like Fkeua was trying to insult you. He probably wasn't aware of your problem. Please reconsider. I know this is a very touchy subject but please try to work things out instead of just throwing in the towel. You give many good posts on here. I hope you are able to get some help soon.
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Please Shatner, don't leave us. I'm really sorry you were hurt here but it was an off-hand comment that was thrown out through misunderstanding and also, I suspect, partially through anger. I'm sorry to see you go from here and while it is 100% your choice, I beg you with all my heart to reconsider.

I fell like i've lost not just some internet acquaintance, but a very good friend.
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Old 04-01-2010, 08:42 PM
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You should have asked me to stand up for you. Damn it man. Why didn't you tell me?
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Old 04-01-2010, 10:37 PM
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Another person leaving!?! ****!

Shatner, I really hope that you will reconsider your actions, please just take a short break and return. You cant let one person drive you away when there are so many people here who love you. Always remember, this is only the internet man. When someone does something (not sure what happened) just ignore it. I hate seeing all these people who are like my second family leaving
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Old 04-01-2010, 10:38 PM
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Another person leaving!?! ****!

Shatner, I really hope that you will reconsider your actions, please just take a short break and return. You cant let one person drive you away when there are so many people here who love you. Always remember, this is only the internet man. When someone does something (not sure what happened) just ignore it. I hate seeing all these people who are like my second family leaving
I know Gunny . It seems weird but it looks like he is gone for good. However, I think he is still on the AF. Maybe someone who knows him more can talk to him on there. Perhaps clear some things up??
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