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Skxawng 03-15-2010 11:49 PM

Envy, Anger and Annoyance...
 
...Has anyone else found that these emotions are less potent since the experience of P.A.D.?

I have, and If I ever start feeling annoyed or angry I come out of it very quickly now. It's a good thing but it all stems back to Avatar ^_^

~Skxawng

Gunny 03-16-2010 12:17 AM

I agree, I am able to come out of those emotions much more quickly. However, there are a few people on other forums I am on that envoke envy and anger in one, and just anger from stupididty from the other. LOL

Edit: and I am a nice guy, its pretty hard to get on my bad side or really piss me off :)

Tudhalyas 03-16-2010 12:19 AM

I really don't think that this happens to me as well, but I can say one thing for sure: Avatar made me more aware of "the others", I mean someone that looks and/or behaves differently than me. If you learn to respect the others they will respect you as well, and you will feel more at peace with everything around you. Obviously this has to be a mutual relationship, but it has to start somewhere.

This is one of the things that this wonderful movie taught me.

Petrucho 03-16-2010 01:45 AM

Anger most of all : I realised what are we becoming, that's our future. I can see the greed of some people who are living nowadays, people who'll kill, destroy, anything to get some money

Brandon Kellum 03-16-2010 06:12 AM

I have as well, although it's still hard when I'm driving. I'm not a happy driver all the time lol

zongtseng 03-16-2010 07:09 AM

I definitely agree on the anger part of it. I used to get mad at a lot of little things. Now, I start to feel it come on, but it's really easy to just let it go. I had PAD in a severe way for a couple of weeks. I'm not sure exactly how the two are related, but they clearly are.

Gunny 03-16-2010 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Brandon Kellum (Post 1833)
I have as well, although it's still hard when I'm driving. I'm not a happy driver all the time lol

This, drivers are stupid! I can imagine even more so when on a bike and they seem oblivious to the fact that you are on the road with them! LOL

TxonTirea 03-16-2010 07:31 AM

I used to get angry quite often, I don't anymore. This is good, very good only.

fkeua vrrtep 03-16-2010 07:35 AM

I agree , somehow I try to filter out more of the positive things in my life , I'm not anymore the irritable little devil as I was some time before , feels alot better ^__^

Skxawng 03-16-2010 07:51 AM

*High Five* to you all then :)

~Skxawng

Apollo 03-16-2010 07:54 AM

Totally! I used to be pissed off about everything, but I'm not anymore.. it is kind of disturbing if you think about it. How did all my hatred fly out the window? How do I not miss it? Just because! Party at my place! Bring Reese Peanut butter, I'm running low..

txen 03-16-2010 08:47 AM

I think of PAD as a manifestation of existential depression. Based on the ages of people here I spent a good part of an entire lifetime in that state many years ago. When you come out of it you grow immensely. It is a big step up the ladder of enlightenment. You become much more secure and your old insecurities tend to be lessened. At this better place you can have better control over your negative emotions.

At least that's how it worked for me. I hope the same happens to others.

Oh yea I still get pissed off and annoyed, just not like I would in my old life. These days I prefer to help others up that ladder.

Tudhalyas 03-16-2010 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Brandon Kellum (Post 1833)
I have as well, although it's still hard when I'm driving. I'm not a happy driver all the time lol

While I drive, I started saying "Kä, vrrtep!" to everyone who doesn't move when he (or she) has to do that :P

Human No More 03-16-2010 02:10 PM

Envy is still the same as always, it's just directed at Jake now :P
As for anger and annoyance, I still reach them as easily, but they probably aren't as bad as they used to be.

Fosus 03-16-2010 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Skxawng (Post 1676)
...Has anyone else found that these emotions are less potent since the experience of P.A.D.?

I have too.

My PAD was full of disappointment in humanity, but it made me realize, that just because we're going towards our own destruction it doesn't mean I should not enjoy, and let everyone else enjoy the beautiful life we have. :)

Iknimaya 03-16-2010 07:59 PM

I've always been a really positive person, but Avatar helped to erase my last shreds of cynicism. I can no longer tolerate people who constantly puts others down. I do try to understand why they act that way and see that it is who they are. The best thing is to give positive energy to all and you will get it in return.

Skxawng 03-16-2010 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Iknimaya (Post 2554)
I've always been a really positive person, but Avatar helped to erase my last shreds of cynicism. I can no longer tolerate people who constantly puts others down. I do try to understand why they act that way and see that it is who they are. The best thing is to give positive energy to all and you will get it in return.


If only we had more Iknimaya's :p

~Skxawng

R-D-A 03-17-2010 01:14 PM

The P.A.D. surely made me more understanding about the world. Dang since I saw AVATAR I havent done anything bad to the nature. I recycle almost anything. I envy matter less and I hardly get annoyed by something...

Skxawng 03-17-2010 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by R-D-A (Post 3191)
The P.A.D. surely made me more understanding about the world. Dang since I saw AVATAR I havent done anything bad to the nature. I recycle almost anything. I envy matter less and I hardly get annoyed by something...

Same, I refuse to throw away anything I can recycle. Saving energy etc is becomming a bit of a compulsion :p

~Skxawng

Human No More 03-17-2010 11:29 PM

I generally recycled when I could, but I've been a lot more aware of and careful about what I throw away since Avatar.

Tudhalyas 03-18-2010 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Skxawng (Post 3540)
Same, I refuse to throw away anything I can recycle. Saving energy etc is becomming a bit of a compulsion :p

~Skxawng

Same here. ;)

Stanley_9875 03-18-2010 05:10 AM

I have been a little uptight lately, but thats probably because i've been tired lately... after seeing Avatar I have been in a upbeat happy mood, or somedays I might be in a downed mood lately... I fear my P.A.D might be coming back, when I first experienced Avatar my P.A.D. was luckily very very minimum

R-D-A 03-18-2010 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Stanley_9875 (Post 3863)
I have been a little uptight lately, but thats probably because i've been tired lately... after seeing Avatar I have been in a upbeat happy mood, or somedays I might be in a downed mood lately... I fear my P.A.D might be coming back, when I first experienced Avatar my P.A.D. was luckily very very minimum

Re-experiencing P.A.D. would be....not very nice. Although I was sad when it was gone. I wanted it back xD I still do...anyways. It made me a better man

Stanley_9875 03-18-2010 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by R-D-A (Post 4558)
Re-experiencing P.A.D. would be....not very nice. Although I was sad when it was gone. I wanted it back xD I still do...anyways. It made me a better man

Yea to be honest my small (but not short) experience with P.A.D. I would welcome again but looking at my post last night I think it was because of the way I felt how the AF were going... But now that I'm here I couldn't be happier

R-D-A 03-18-2010 03:09 PM

Thats great :D

Fosus 03-18-2010 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by R-D-A (Post 4558)
I was sad when it was gone. I wanted it back xD

In my case it has returned couple of times. The last time was the last saturday. I felt _so_ worthless going the same way the rest of the humanity is going (=towards it's destruction). But now when it's gone, i feel this Post Depression Happiness again lol. (I haven't posted much this week. More sports, less computer haha)

Even though it feels like PAD always makes me a better person, for now on I try to avoid reaching depression that bad level. It wasn't fun ..

R-D-A 03-19-2010 10:36 AM

I post always when I'm home ^^ Nothing better t do since I got bored of gaming. And you're lucky you get hit by P.A.D. from time to time :P

Boomachucka 03-19-2010 08:10 PM

I have certainly found this myself, unless it's a person or situation who has a tendency to bring about those emotions very strongly in me already. Most of the time I found that I quickly say to myself "Why am I really upset about that? Does it matter? No, not really." and totally chill out and try to enjoy the rest of my day.

Also, my PAD was definitely along the lines of being disappointed with our society and how far we've come. A lot of the time I just observe people (social dynamics of being 'cool,' drinking, partying, buying expensive cars, sex, etc) and I can't help but think about how silly and unfulfilling all those things seem now.

I say it's a change for the better.

Fkeu'itan 03-20-2010 03:20 AM

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The best thing is to give positive energy to all and you will get it in return.
^This.

While I wasn't generally an angry person before, i'm even less so after Avatar. If anything, i've become too soft. Almost a romantic, completely in love with the world and all my emotions. :D

txen 03-20-2010 04:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Fkeu'itan (Post 6025)
^This.

While I wasn't generally an angry person before, i'm even less so after Avatar. If anything, i've become too soft. Almost a romantic, completely in love with the world and all my emotions. :D

Just because you are slower to anger it does not necessarily make you soft. I have worked on my anger for a long time. I pretty much only get worked up when the situation deserves it. Sometimes anger is the correct response, but most times it is counterproductive. I prefer serenity and tranquility whenever I can get them.

Fkeu'itan 03-20-2010 11:55 AM

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Just because you are slower to anger it does not necessarily make you soft. I have worked on my anger for a long time. I pretty much only get worked up when the situation deserves it. Sometimes anger is the correct response, but most times it is counterproductive. I prefer serenity and tranquility whenever I can get them.

This is true. Don't get me wrong, I still get angry but it takes a whole lot more to do so then it did before, which in my view is a good thing.

Human No More 03-20-2010 11:58 AM

I used to have a lot of anger problems, years ago. I solved them, now it's fairly difficult to actually make me really angry, but I still get just as angry as I used to. The only real exception is when it comes to my friends and family, who I will be ready to defend instantly if I need to.


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