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Neytiri. 10-25-2010 07:39 AM

Ever smile while crying inside?
 
I do it everyday, can anyone relate?

Neytiri. 10-25-2010 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Andisavatar (Post 105725)
k, i want to hug you

I wish you could

Layzie 10-25-2010 07:47 AM

Simple but deep statement.

I have, not often though. To be honest I kinda think when you cry inside but try to hide it with a smile, it actally feels worse than being sad with no attempt to hide it (or physical cry). To hide sadness with happiness takes too much energy (in my opinion) and I just don't have it in me.

Human No More 10-25-2010 08:03 AM

Definitely.

I hate it when you really can't explain what you feel to someone, so you just hide it.

Banefull 10-25-2010 08:18 AM

I do this perhaps way more than is healthy for me. Not necessarily a smile, but I always do my best to keep face and display that nothing is wrong even to the extent of faking happiness in front of others if I feel that they would be troubled to see me otherwise.

Neytiri. 10-25-2010 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Banefull (Post 105749)
I do this perhaps way more than is healthy for me. Not necessarily a smile, but I always do my best to keep face and display that nothing is wrong even to the extent of faking happiness in front of others if I feel that they would be troubled to see me otherwise.

Exactly, I do that nearly everyday, to everyone. It's extremely draining, It'd be nice if i didn't have to but I do...

FML

Human No More 10-25-2010 08:26 AM

I do it all the time with people IRL... because my motivation, how I get 'happiness' is different. Because sadly, many people I know think that there's something wrong with showing too much of yourself.

Woodsprite 10-25-2010 08:27 AM

Happens all the time w/me.

Helicoradian 10-25-2010 08:35 AM

I could never hide sadness with a smile. Kinda like Layzie said, it just takes to much out of you :(

I'd just do what I normally do...show no outward emotion and let it pile up on the inside :(

Advent 10-25-2010 08:39 AM

Very often thing that.

Neytiri. 10-25-2010 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Helicoradian (Post 105759)
I could never hide sadness with a smile. Kinda like Layzie said, it just takes to much out of you :(

I'd just do what I normally do...show no outward emotion and let it pile up on the inside :(


Yeah i do basically that, i just exchange no outward emotion for smiles so everyone thinks i'm great, I've found that the more i smile the more happy my brothers are and its basically i chain reaction, I do my best to keep everyone around me happy, Maybe its stupid but at least there happy

electrosphere11 10-25-2010 09:30 AM

No, I hate crying. I don't usually let people see me cry. I'll hold it in until I'm alone or something and then do whatever.

electrosphere11 10-25-2010 09:31 AM

Wait, I read that wrong, I guess that is the same.

Marvellous Chester 10-25-2010 01:36 PM

Sometimes. In England it is widely regarded as bad to show too much emotion and crying is somewhat 'frowned' (can't think of a better word) upon. I smile while others are around and then when I'm alone I can cry and show how I really feel :(

I don't really have anybody that I can show emotion in front of without feeling as though I'm being judged. It is why I loved AF and ToS so much.

Gunny 10-25-2010 05:18 PM

Yes its happened to me. I do it very often with my roommates and my parents. I figure they wouldn't understand so i do not convey that anything is wrong. I agree though it is hard on you holding things back. Makes ne wish I knew everyone here irl


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