Poll Who's Married, Shacking, Single?

[Niri Te]

Originally Posted by tm20

where's the forever alone option *me

There are PLENTY of people of the appropriate gender for you out there, just go out and FIND one. Don't complain about not having any fun, if you won't go to the Arcade. Go hunt someone up.

[iron_jones]

Originally Posted by Niri Te

There are PLENTY of people of the appropriate gender for you out there, just go out and FIND one. Don't complain about not having any fun, if you won't go to the Arcade. Go hunt someone up.

Here here!
No such thing as forever alone.

[Moco Loco]

Ha, that's a great analogy, I'm using it if I ever remember to
"Married, Living Together, Single, Single and Hopelessly Pessimistic"

[Human No More]

It's true, but I think there can be if you aren't considering the right possibilities - if there's nobody nearby, go to different places, meet people you wouldn't, or else just widen your search area where you'd consider something at a longer distance than you would have before.

[Alan]

Hmm..interesting thread! I always find myself playing catch up. This brings back the memory of the photoshoot of 'Avatar couples' at AvatarMeet 2012. Take a look at the video below and wind through to 11 minutes 25 seconds:

Unfortunately I missed videoing the bit where Raiden walked in just as the couples were assembling and when he realised what was happening, he rolled his eyes and walked out! All in good humour, and much to the amusment of everyone.

As fo me, well I'm as single as they come. But, yep, like most folks, longing to find that life long companion to share my life with. Although, I've just about given up. Is she out there? Is there someone who could put up with me? Will our paths cross? Have they already? Who knows? That's life''s advanture I guess.

...*thinks to self whilst looking at own sig image - now if one's soulmate search followed the Avatar experience, boy what a journey that would be...

Alan

[apache_blanca]

Originally Posted by Human No More

It's true, but I think there can be if you aren't considering the right possibilities - if there's nobody nearby, go to different places, meet people you wouldn't, or else just widen your search area where you'd consider something at a longer distance than you would have before.

or if one Wants to be alone because it makes them happy. i know one person on this forum, & one in the RL - two samples

@tm20: about "alone forever":
do you Want to be alone, or do you think you have no chance to be with somebody, for whatever reason? or something... You're not obliged to reply if it's too personal of course.

Originally Posted by Alan

...As fo me, well I'm as single as they come. But, yep, like most folks, longing to find that life long companion to share my life with. Although, I've just about given up. Is she out there? Is there someone who could put up with me? Will our paths cross? Have they already? Who knows? That's life''s advanture I guess.

...*thinks to self whilst looking at own sig image - now if one's soulmate search followed the Avatar experience, boy what a journey that would be...

Alan

never say never ma tsmukan - If I had to define just one thing that I had learned in my long & rather intense life, that would be this (what I've just said).
Meself is a living proof (and look at my signature, too, the 'bleep' part )

PS and irayo for posting the Meetup Video again... it keeps giving me this... special feeling... what's the word? Pandora syndrom?

[Alan]

Originally Posted by apache_blanca

never say never ma tsmukan - If I had to define just one thing that I had learned in my long & rather intense life, that would be this (what I've just said).
Meself is a living proof (and look at my signature, too, the 'bleep' part )

You're right ma tswal tsmuke. I know I said I had just about given up, which I guess means I haven't quite yet. But hey, live in hope. I wasn't expecting this Avatar experience and yet here I am with an Avatar family and even had the privilege to meet some of you.

Originally Posted by apache_blanca

PS and irayo for posting the Meetup Video again... it keeps giving me this... special feeling... what's the word? Pandora syndrom?

Always time to share Avatar family moments with everyone.

Alan

[tm20]

Originally Posted by apache_blanca

@tm20: about "alone forever":
do you Want to be alone, or do you think you have no chance to be with somebody, for whatever reason? or something... You're not obliged to reply if it's too personal of course.

ive talked to woman and i can hold a good conversation but its always "yeah ill call you" or something along those lines...and then no reply ._. id rather be told straight away "im not interested, go away". i think i do have a chance but i'm probably talking to the wrong people.

[Alan]

Originally Posted by tm20

ive talked to woman and i can hold a good conversation but its always "yeah ill call you" or something along those lines...and then no reply ._. id rather be told straight away "im not interested, go away". i think i do have a chance but i'm probably talking to the wrong people.

Sounds like pub and party talk that you are getting, ma TM20.

You're a good bloke ma tsmukan. I'm sure you will cross paths with the lass who is right for you.

If you find a lass who is still hagging around you after you have talked to death to them about Avatar, then you might be onto a winner ...

Eywa ngahu,

Alan

[Human No More]

It's very true - sometimes chance happens even if I do think people who are actively trying to find someone are doing the right thing for them too. In the end, it's who you're with that matters.

Originally Posted by Alan

Sounds like pub and party talk that you are getting, ma TM20.

You're a good bloke ma tsmukan. I'm sure you will cross paths with the lass who is right for you.

If you find a lass who is still hagging around you after you have talked to death to them about Avatar, then you might be onto a winner ...

Now that's the critical trait

tm20, I'm sure you will. Maybe come to the meetup next year

[iron_jones]

Originally Posted by tm20

ive talked to woman and i can hold a good conversation but its always "yeah ill call you" or something along those lines...and then no reply ._. id rather be told straight away "im not interested, go away". i think i do have a chance but i'm probably talking to the wrong people.

The hotter she is, the more rude and un-caring you have to be to her.

[Fiyerwall]

Single. I think I do want someone to share my life with, but I honestly don't know. I'm on the autism spectrum and our brains our wired differently and some of us don't really have that drive to seek out a mate.

[Alan]

Well, I guess if anyone longs for a relationship, then they need to understand the need for compromise. There will endevitably end up being things that each side mutually has to change/give up/adjust/accommodate etc. But if that soul search is over, I would say it naturally happens. It can be as little as adjusting your diary through to moving to another country and taking on that culture. But at the end of the day, it's all down to love.

Alan

[apache_blanca]

Originally Posted by Alan

Well, I guess if anyone longs for a relationship, then they need to understand the need for compromise. There will endevitably end up being things that each side mutually has to change/give up/adjust/accommodate etc. But if that soul search is over, I would say it naturally happens. It can be as little as adjusting your diary through to moving to another country and taking on that culture. But at the end of the day, it's all down to love.
Alan

where shall I sign?

[Alan]

I thought you already had Hehehe.

Alan