My annoying rant

[allycat]

good for you^^ see this is what makes you a good role model.. rather than just a model LOL get it? haha but i am so glad you are different! its what makes you beautiful! never stop believing in yourself!!

[Cyan]

Hehe, ally you are our rolemodel now

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by allycat

good for you^^ see this is what makes you a good role model.. rather than just a model LOL get it? haha but i am so glad you are different! its what makes you beautiful! never stop believing in yourself!!

Aww, thank you Allycat. I never thought of myself as a role model. I'm just a working stiff, trying to pay the bills, etc. Thank you for your response though .

[Dreamwalker]

Um. I like fashion. *hides*
lol. But I do know what you mean Ally
I've never been teased or made fun of really, so I can't say I know how you feel, rapunzel, but my heart goes out to you! That is so awful! I remember when I was in sixth grade I think, and there was this group of guys who were teasing one of my classmates. It made me so mad, I gave them a piece of my mind XD. They didn't bother her anymore. We're actually really good friends now! But bullies need to get a life. Like, do they really have nothing better to do than make other people feel bad about themselves? Honestly.

[allycat]

thanks Cyan! that is so sweet! not a problem rapunzel! to me you are a role model.. you are what is right with this world!

haha thats true Dream, cause you were kind of brought up with it you areone of the lucky girls that dont get picked on lol

and it was very sweet of you to stand up to for one of your classmates like that.. thats what makes a good person!

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Dreamwalker

Um. I like fashion. *hides*
lol. But I do know what you mean Ally
I've never been teased or made fun of really, so I can't say I know how you feel, rapunzel, but my heart goes out to you! That is so awful! I remember when I was in sixth grade I think, and there was this group of guys who were teasing one of my classmates. It made me so mad, I gave them a piece of my mind XD. They didn't bother her anymore. We're actually really good friends now! But bullies need to get a life. Like, do they really have nothing better to do than make other people feel bad about themselves? Honestly.

Thank you Dreamwalker. Sadly, I didn't have anyone that would stand up to them and I was to shy to do anything about it so I just found a quiet place and cried . I was a wreck for several years. I agree that bullies really do need to get a life. I never understood why they would torture others.

[Stanley_9875]

Originally Posted by allycat

Stanley, thank you for this amazing reply! it brings tears to my eyes, and not in a bad way! you are so right about us having our own fashion! i respect that and wish more people were like your cousins! they could make amazing role models!!

not a problem! i am so glad you understand what we go through.. cause most guys dont... and you actually do!!! i am happy to hear this more than anything right now and it means the world to me!! you are sweet and any woman would be luck to have you

awwww Ally if you could see the smile on my face right now... you are truly making my day

and yes, I am glad my eyes are opened to the painful terrible truth around us... going to a public trade school you see this world... some guys have girls to be "friends with beinfits" (sex) how good some girls are in bed, things like that, and they're treating women like objects... and there is no way in eternity that I could ever think of a woman as an object, they're just as human as us guys... whats the thinking? Most guys if they think about getting together with a girl nowadays its like "I wonder how quickly i can get her into bed" NO! Wrong! for me its getting to know them, spending time with them, admiring them for who they are, their traits, what they like to do, all that stuff (sorry it's like I'm turning this into my rant). Because they're different than guys, so its interesting to see why... guys obviously are differnet too, but girls are on another level... once again sorry haha

[allycat]

Originally Posted by Stanley_9875

awwww Ally if you could see the smile on my face right now... you are truly making my day

and yes, I am glad my eyes are opened to the painful terrible truth around us... going to a public trade school you see this world... some guys have girls to be "friends with beinfits" (sex) how good some girls are in bed, things like that, and they're treating women like objects... and there is no way in eternity that I could ever think of a woman as an object, they're just as human as us guys... whats the thinking? Most guys if they think about getting together with a girl nowadays its like "I wonder how quickly i can get her into bed" NO! Wrong! for me its getting to know them, spending time with them, admiring them for who they are, their traits, what they like to do, all that stuff (sorry it's like I'm turning this into my rant). Because they're different than guys, so its interesting to see why... guys obviously are differnet too, but girls are on another level... once again sorry haha

I wish I could see this smile, I bet it would be amazing!

no no! dont be sorry! please dont be sorry, your words are truly beautiful and Stanley, seriously you are an amazing person!! you would make the greatest boyfriend cause you care about us as people.. not as objects! you are right in so many levels! guys just only want to screw girls and nothing else.. we are always treated like we are not human beings its like we are their sex toys.. its not fair at all.. it angers me.. in shows and stuff... like Two and a Half men, thats all they do is have Charlie objectifying countless clones.. its HORRID! thank you again Stanley.. for everything!

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Stanley_9875

awwww Ally if you could see the smile on my face right now... you are truly making my day

and yes, I am glad my eyes are opened to the painful terrible truth around us... going to a public trade school you see this world... some guys have girls to be "friends with beinfits" (sex) how good some girls are in bed, things like that, and they're treating women like objects... and there is no way in eternity that I could ever think of a woman as an object, they're just as human as us guys... whats the thinking? Most guys if they think about getting together with a girl nowadays its like "I wonder how quickly i can get her into bed" NO! Wrong! for me its getting to know them, spending time with them, admiring them for who they are, their traits, what they like to do, all that stuff (sorry it's like I'm turning this into my rant). Because they're different than guys, so its interesting to see why... guys obviously are differnet too, but girls are on another level... once again sorry haha

Stanley, you are very wise. It is to bad that more men don't think like you do when it comes to women. It is ironic that since the time of the "feminist" movment, women are treated worse than they were before the movement. Women are treated as nothing more than objects to be used and discarded. I do think that our current society, especially the media has something to do with this. It is disturbing that with the rise in pornography, we get the rise in the abuse of women and sometimes children.

[allycat]

This^^ i find this horrible.. even children now.. and you are right.. we are treated worse.. but we can fight against it!! we can do whatever it takes!

bye everyone! i have to go!have a good day, and never forget who you are!

[Cyan]

Everwhere i look is the sexualisation of women, basically flesh branded on every reachable surface, that's how it feels to me. It hurts inside to see people sell themselves like that, and the corporations making women feel bad, and therefore invest in their products. It makes me soo sad to see such lovely people addicted to such cosmetics, beleiving they need to change but they need to see how beautiful they are. I love you ladies here, every admirable quality in a girl, you are all sacred, beuatiful creatures that deserve to be treat most handsomely and cherished. Women are soo beautiful, and to see them disregarded pains me. Theres nothing better than a womans hug, thats what sells me

[Stanley_9875]

Originally Posted by allycat

I wish I could see this smile, I bet it would be amazing!

no no! dont be sorry! please dont be sorry, your words are truly beautiful and Stanley, seriously you are an amazing person!! you would make the greatest boyfriend cause you care about us as people.. not as objects! you are right in so many levels! guys just only want to screw girls and nothing else.. we are always treated like we are not human beings its like we are their sex toys.. its not fair at all.. it angers me.. in shows and stuff... like Two and a Half men, thats all they do is have Charlie objectifying countless clones.. its HORRID! thank you again Stanley.. for everything!

Of course ally and thank you for everything ally

And it's the unfortunante truth... just how guys treat women nowadays is making me sick beyond belief... sometimes beyond what I can bear and I cry... I truly feel for you ladies, and like I said I am glad my eyes are opened to this kind of thing, so I can go against the crowd and be different, actually be truth. Because I go to a school thats pretty much all guys (except for the ocassional girl who loves cars [I go to an automotive technician school]) I'm around it all the freakin time. I love school, but sometimes the conversations that go on is sickening. And outside of school as well whenever I see a girl walk by I think, "what seperates me from those guys at school? How does she know that I wouldn't just try to get her to bed but want to develope a relationship? Actually get to know her?"

[ZenitYerkes]

Good people will look through the clothes; superficial people would just exclaim how horrible you look. I learned this when I went to a summer camp where most of people were dressed as louts; but when it ended you just didn't care about all the piercings and tattooing or whatever, there were very nice people behind that facade.

Wear whatever you want, the people who really deserve your attention will never judge you by your look.

[Dreamwalker]

Originally Posted by Stanley_9875

awwww Ally if you could see the smile on my face right now... you are truly making my day

and yes, I am glad my eyes are opened to the painful terrible truth around us... going to a public trade school you see this world... some guys have girls to be "friends with beinfits" (sex) how good some girls are in bed, things like that, and they're treating women like objects... and there is no way in eternity that I could ever think of a woman as an object, they're just as human as us guys... whats the thinking? Most guys if they think about getting together with a girl nowadays its like "I wonder how quickly i can get her into bed" NO! Wrong! for me its getting to know them, spending time with them, admiring them for who they are, their traits, what they like to do, all that stuff (sorry it's like I'm turning this into my rant). Because they're different than guys, so its interesting to see why... guys obviously are differnet too, but girls are on another level... once again sorry haha

Well, you sound like a keeper! XD
Seriously, though, not many guys think that way. Atleast, they don't act that way.

Oh, and girls really aren't that interesting. We're just...confusing. xDD I confuse myself sometimes.

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Dreamwalker

Well, you sound like a keeper! XD
Seriously, though, not many guys think that way. Atleast, they don't act that way.

Oh, and girls really aren't that interesting. We're just...confusing. xDD I confuse myself sometimes.

LOL Dreamwalker. This is true. We are a strange gender but we are interesting and mysterious to guys. Go figure....

I also agree about Stanley. You are a keeper and you will make some lady very happy one day .