Is Neytiri a problem child?

[Patrice Maire]

After the last time I watched the hometree scene where Mo'at tells Neytiri she's to train Jake, I got to thinking.
Given Neytiri's objection and Mo'at's reaction... it seems to me that possibly Neytiri has been a bit spoiled.
Could it be that she got away with some situations because she asked 'daddy' first? Watch that scene... she objects, Mo'at responds with a raised hand and Neytiri growls in frustration.
That sounds like a typical spoiling issue to me. (Being a mom of course I noticed this.)
Is it because she's 'royalty' and has been given more leniency in some actions because of it?

What are your thoughts on this?