Searching for lifemate? Or already have them?

[Autumnshire]

I was just wondering what other people's situations are here at the moment ^^ Are you... a content individual? Happily - whatever? Or... waiting? Something like that?

For me, I'm a *usually* happy, single individual - independent (well, as independent as one can be who lives with her mother), but I'm certainly looking forward for the time to come that I come across my lifemate ^^ People go on and on and on at me about how young I am and therefore "why so serious?" But I don't see it as being 'serious' - my friends keep telling me I should 'get out and have some fun'... well, I don't actually want the type of 'fun' they're talking about! And I also don't want to waste my time on useless relationships. I mean, of course you can't just usually shake someone's hand and think, "Oh! Yep we're gonna get married" or whatever, because nobody knows exactly what the future holds, but thanks to several guys who taught me what a relationship shouldn't be like, and Avatar which taught me the kind of thing I *would* like to find, I'm going to be much wiser about my decisions. I'm going to wait for someone who Sees - you know; sees the world in a similar way to me, respects the creatures of the earth the same way I do, and instead of wanting to get ahead in the rat race, they want to spend their life doing something good - for themselves, and our Earth.

Anyway. So, wondering where other people are on this page. Of course not everybody's going to want to share, but for those who do, I'm interested