Lamest qq rant ever.

[Txum_kali'weya]

Hugs.

Unless the reason you kept him in your life is good, you should move on.

[Autumnshire]

Of course.

But, saying 'move on' is one thing - actually doing it is another, much longer, and often painful process.
Oops, I didn't mean for me now, because yes, I've moved on from that 'relationship' - had done so ages ago. It's moving on from the lingering hurt and stuff though I guess, and those bad memories. That's the hard bit.
But yes, moving moving on!

[Spock]

Originally Posted by Autumnshire

Of course.

But, saying 'move on' is one thing - actually doing it is another, much longer, and often painful process.
Oops, I didn't mean for me now, because yes, I've moved on from that 'relationship' - had done so ages ago. It's moving on from the lingering hurt and stuff though I guess, and those bad memories. That's the hard bit.
But yes, moving moving on!

It's a shame emotions are so complicated, or is it?

[Stanley_9875]

Originally Posted by Spock

It's a shame emotions are so complicated, or is it?

If things weren't complicated life would be smooth sailing, but if things are complicated it allows us to meditate on them and try to improve on them... like love or emotions

[Txantsulsam Fyawintxu]

Originally Posted by Stanley_9875

If things weren't complicated life would be smooth sailing, but if things are complicated it allows us to meditate on them and try to improve on them... like love or emotions

Originally Posted by Human No More

Perhaps, but they're what make life worth living.

I agree with the two of you. Without such complexity, there would be nothing to explore...

Life would be boring by then!

Autum, I hope everything turned out okay for you and I certainly hope everything is resolved up to this point! *hugs* Just a friendly reminder, life can be tough at times but it does help us grow a lot over time and make us learn to be the best we can be. So don't worry too much about it, just live and be happy!

[Spock]

Ah, exactly. This is exactly the kind of thought I wanted to provoke through my remark.

[Human No More]

Originally Posted by Spock

It's a shame emotions are so complicated, or is it?

Perhaps, but they're what make life worth living.

[Autumnshire]

Originally Posted by Human No More

Perhaps, but they're what make life worth living.

Definitely. But also makes it a bit difficult at times too But that's okay, as the others have said, those lessons make you stronger etc.

[Spock]

Originally Posted by Autumnshire

Definitely. But also makes it a bit difficult at times too But that's okay, as the others have said, those lessons make you stronger etc.

And there is the other side of the story. The latter part of your statement is the penultimate outcome. So true.

[Fkeu'itan]

Exactly autumn.

Here are some lyrics from a song that I find very true.

Originally Posted by Heiruspecs - 5ves

What doesn't make you wince now, will only make you better. We'd all be better swimmers if the Earth was really wetter.

Says it all for me really.

[Spock]

Originally Posted by Fkeu'itan

Exactly autumn.

Here are some lyrics from a song that I find very true.



Says it all for me really.

Originally Posted by Heiruspecs - 5ves
What doesn't make you wince now, will only make you better. We'd all be better swimmers if the Earth was really wetter.

Behavioural reactions and mistakes are more like acclimations. What is experienced in your own life cannot be passed onto the next generation. What affects your life will teach you the lessons, make you stronger. It is something to be experienced not learnt. So my point is, experiences will make you all the more stronger in many ways.

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Spock

Behavioural reactions and mistakes are more like acclimations. What is experienced in your own life cannot be passed onto the next generation. What affects your life will teach you the lessons, make you stronger. It is something to be experienced not learnt. So my point is, experiences will make you all the more stronger in many ways.

You are right mostly but there are lessons that you can teach the next generation. However, ultimately, they will have to learn them on their own. It is through trials that we grow in knowledge and strength.

[Spock]

Originally Posted by rapunzel77

You are right mostly but there are lessons that you can teach the next generation. However, ultimately, they will have to learn them on their own. It is through trials that we grow in knowledge and strength.

Ah, that's right, I was going to add that in but didn't see it as relevant. But there we go anyway. Lessons can only go so far though.