Tips for finding a mate/gf/bf, etc

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Sonoran Na'vi

I agree with a lot of the advice given in this thread. The one thing that has worked for me is having confidence. This doesn't necessarily mean that you have to think of yourself in the highest of esteems; rather, you like yourself enough to believe that other people will like you too. Confidence can be conveyed in a single sentence. For instance, I have never asked a girl for her number. Instead I say: "Let me have your number and I'll call you later." I am not demanding her for her number, but this statement reflects a certain confidence that people do tend to pick up on (even if they are not conscious about it).

I definitely agree Sonoran . It is key to like yourself. If you don't like yourself, then how can anyone else like you? This is a good point and it does come to the issue of self-confidence. I know it isn't always easy to build self confidence but it is essential .