Lonliness.

[Brandon Kellum]

I know exactly how you feel man, even worse though for me especially recently. I had my Neytiri, she was perfect in every way. She was my best friend for 6 years and we truly could See each other. Then I turned into a superficial prick and lost her.

[Gunny]

Dont stress over this man, "the best things come to those who wait" can apply to this situation also. Carry yourself with pride, be proud in who you are and be confident. Use this type of technique, talk to lots of women, not always in a way that you would like to date them but in a way that you would want to be their friend. Because in this way if nothing happens you atleast have another friend.

For me, I have had one "real" relationship and lots of stupid pointless ones of me just being with other dumb girls LOL. I miss the beginning from that old relationship, I miss the idea of the girlfriend and such. Though I do not miss the BS I put up with her or the endless money I spent on her. I have this perfect girl now that I am looking for, but in a way do not feel at my point in life am ready for her.

Like I said before, the best things come to those who wait is true. Live your life to the fullest and you will meet your dream girl when you are ready. Why rush when you could embark on an incredible journey through you way to find her?

[laura neytiri]

we only need hope and friends to leave that stupid sad in our hearts cause love just becomes when you don't wait it

[Fkeu'itan]

Thank you Wanderling for such kind words. Support like this is always welcome. You are right, and we only have to keep our faith up... but sometimes it's just hard to do that.

Oel ngati kameie!

^This.

Also, I agree with laura neytiri. Sometimes things turn up when you least expect them. I hope this is one of those things.

[laura neytiri]

hope you're alright now

[Fkeu'itan]

hope you're alright now

Thanks to you, countless other people and some good music, yeah i'm feeling a lot better. Irayo ma tsmuke.

[laura neytiri]

lol

[RizZy]

My best advice I can give over things like this is just get out there & enjoy life, stop trying to find "the one" the more you look the harder it'll be, start doing things you enjoy & you'll meet people with similar interests & who knows from there, you might spark with someone, ask them out for a coffee or something & there you go.

Never forget everyone has the same fears in life & your never alone.

[Tsamsiyu]

hheard this song when i was 12 made me think bout where i was going

[Seshat Tsahìk]

Fkeu'itan, poor poets, from the emotions that run deep in their souls, doth feel the bitter sweet pangs of sorrow and lonliness to the blissful heights of rapture and euphoria and ponder the agony. Oel ngati kameie, i see you my new Na'Vi brother and offer what little comfort I can in spirit!

[Fkeu'itan]

More thank yous are due. Thanks to RizZy, some wise words. Looking too hard is often the best way to make it difficult to find.

To tsamsiyu, thank you. It was a truly an inspirational song and it helped a lot. Thank you once again.

And to you Seshat Tsahik, a thanks for - like everyone else - for being able to understand what I and others who have spoken out on this thread are going through and for supporting us.

Oél ngáti kámeie, all of you.

[Stanley_9875]

That I fear is another one of my problems, whenever I do go out I think "maybe this time I'll meet that someone" but it doesn't happen. I need to alter my mindset towards that haha

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Stanley_9875

That I fear is another one of my problems, whenever I do go out I think "maybe this time I'll meet that someone" but it doesn't happen. I need to alter my mindset towards that haha

I used to do that Stanley. I would watch the people in the mall where i worked or the people who were at church on Sundays and I would think, "is this the one?" I stopped looking because I thought it was futile.

I would advise that you don't think about it to hard. Be open. Be friendly. Talk to them. It will only be when you start to get to know them that you will find out, "is this the one?" Sometimes you have to use less than conventional means as well. Both my sister and myself met our husbands on the internet. It isn't always the best way to meet your soul mate but it is a possibility. Expand your horizons but don't think about it all the time.

I HATED being told that he will come when you least expect him to. It became a cliche to me. I won't say that in those exact words. I know that it doesn't help the loneliness. I am certain that she is out there as I am sure there is a lady out there for each of you (Fkeu'itan, Human No More, etc).

[Stanley_9875]

Originally Posted by rapunzel77

I used to do that Stanley. I would watch the people in the mall where i worked or the people who were at church on Sundays and I would think, "is this the one?" I stopped looking because I thought it was futile.

I would advise that you don't think about it to hard. Be open. Be friendly. Talk to them. It will only be when you start to get to know them that you will find out, "is this the one?" Sometimes you have to use less than conventional means as well. Both my sister and myself met our husbands on the internet. It isn't always the best way to meet your soul mate but it is a possibility. Expand your horizons but don't think about it all the time.

I HATED being told that he will come when you least expect him to. It became a cliche to me. I won't say that in those exact words. I know that it doesn't help the loneliness. I am certain that she is out there as I am sure there is a lady out there for each of you (Fkeu'itan, Human No More, etc).

Thank you very much for those words of encouragement! Yea there are a few girls at my church (Its a smaller type of church) but... I don't know they just don't seem like my type. I look around and most of the people I see just doesn't seem like my type. It's hard to compare when all that runs through your mind is Neytiri

But seriously thank you I'll have to keep these tips in mind

[rapunzel77]

Originally Posted by Stanley_9875

Thank you very much for those words of encouragement! Yea there are a few girls at my church (Its a smaller type of church) but... I don't know they just don't seem like my type. I look around and most of the people I see just doesn't seem like my type. It's hard to compare when all that runs through your mind is Neytiri

But seriously thank you I'll have to keep these tips in mind

You're welcome . I hope my advice will help. I understand that probably most of the girls wouldn't be your type there. I never found any fellas close to my type at my church either. They were already attached to someone or they weren't interested. Don't give up hope though. Your Neytiri is out there .